How many times have we come across men who whine about
feminists being misandrists? Men, who refuse to accept that they in any way are
offending women, assume that being men, they can judge and decide what a woman
feels, thinks, deciphers and understands. Such men want to whine and create an
us versus them argument instead of admitting that there is a problem which
needs to be addressed and solved. This behavior is rather a pattern among many
of the pseudo-enlightened, know-it-all and so-called Pakistani atheist and
agnostic men.
I already blogged about it a few days ago, however, today I
feel the need to write more about it. Why? Because once again the same sleazy, clichéd
arguments were used by men who want to justify objectification under the
argument, ‘boys will be boys’ or ‘she asked for it’ as she’s dressed a certain
way. They have no hesitation in saying, she’s a misandrists for calling out a
man misogynist for liking sexist jokes; women are psychopaths and need to
develop a sense of humor to appreciate our sexist jokes; she needs to get laid;
she has hormonal problems; she is PMSing – the list is far too long, and I too
tired to jot it down.
All of these accusations could actually be addressed as
topics in their own right, and I might do so one day. But today again, I will stick
to the accusation of misandry leveled at feminists. In my previous blog post, I
wrote about the general hostility of misogynist men (incidentally that makes up
most of their populace) and the occasions on which they label a woman a
misandrist. This time it is about what prompts this behavior.
Mostly men who indulge in this name calling are scared shit
of strong women. These women not only challenge the societal mindset, which the
pseudo-enlightened thinks he does too, but they also call him out on his bullshit.
So they are insecure of not only being challenged but also of losing control
all together and being exposed for what they are.
Let’s admit once and for all, that guys who go all out and
attack a woman for being a misandrist, and further have the nerve to whine
about being discriminated against instead of admitting to their faults, are the
worst semi-educated-pseudo-intellectuals suffering from a misplaced alpha male
syndrome. They only prefer women whom they can patronize, lecture, manipulate
and be condescending to. And if a woman cannot be fitted in any of these boxes,
she must be that uncontrollable-psycho-man-hating-baby-killing-bitch (who
can outmaneuver and expose his pseudo-intellectualism).
Let’s also establish here that these men are cowards.
